What is Nature?
Nature refers to the genes and all the factors we have inherited from our parents. These influence our behaviour which could be the personality traits we are born with and also our physical characteristics such as the colour of our eyes.
What is Nurture?
Nurture refers to the characteristics we develop from our interaction with environmental variables and our experiences. These shape our personality and can include our early childhood experiences, upbringing, social interactions and surrounding culture.
It could be that Ayaan’s genetic dispositions made him to be more of a patient person compared to Ayushi. A particular genetic trait may contribute to the difference in their social behaviour. However, this is not the whole story. This genetic trait is activated depending on the environment of the child. This means that while Ayaan might have had a predisposition to be patient, this trait was only activated due to the way his parents brought him up.
It is important, however, to recognize that “nature” and “nurture” are not parallel tracks. Instead, the tracks are woven together and influence each other’s pathways in ways that may vary greatly depending on the individual child.